Networking Maturity is Confidence in Contribution
A step-by-step roadmap to move relationships from first contact to advocacy — without random networking.
Start at Level 0. Move one step at a time.
How to Use This Ladder
Your First Step
Pick 10 key relationships from your network. These are people you want to deepen connections with — not everyone you've ever met.
Tag and Track
Assign each relationship to a level on this ladder. Be honest about where they sit today.
Move Forward
Focus on moving each relationship one step forward using the 'Next 2 actions' from each level.
Level 0
New Contact
Warm
Drifting
Networking without a target, a plan, or consistent follow-up.
What It Looks Like
  • You attend occasionally, but you're not building momentum
  • Your message changes depending on who you're talking to
  • Follow-up is random or delayed
Gate to Pass
  • Define your ICP plus the 1–2 problems you solve
  • Create one repeatable follow-up habit
Next 2 Actions
  1. Write a 2-sentence "who I help + outcome" statement
  1. Book 1 Eye2Eye this week and send one ADD ONE follow-up

Common Trap: Confusing "being busy" with "being intentional"
10%
Attention
Low visibility, low relevance
15%
Action
Inconsistent movement
20%
Association
Shallow trust
0%
Advocacy
None
Level 1
Warm
Active
Present
You show up and you're likeable, but results rely on luck.
What It Looks Like
  • People recognise you, but can't clearly refer you
  • You have conversations, but few next steps
  • You're reactive to opportunities
Gate to Pass
  • Make your referral request specific (what a good intro looks like)
  • Create a consistent follow-up cadence
Next 2 Actions
  1. Create a "good referral looks like…" one-liner
  1. Send 3 follow-ups within 24 hours using ADD ONE

Common Trap: Thinking attendance equals progress
30%
Attention
Recognisable, not memorable
25%
Action
Occasional follow-up
35%
Association
Friendly but thin
10%
Advocacy
Rare
Level 2
Active
Integrated
Intentional
You are referable and you move conversations into next steps.
What It Looks Like
  • Clear ICP and outcomes
  • You book Eye2Eyes and ask sharp questions
  • You follow up with purpose
Gate to Pass
  • Build context-rich introductions (not name swaps)
  • Seed partner awareness before you need it
Next 2 Actions
  1. Identify 3 adjacent providers and define "when to introduce them"
  1. Make 1 context-rich intro this week (with why + fit + next step)

Common Trap: Staying solo when the client needs an ecosystem
55%
Attention
Clear message
50%
Action
Consistent movement
45%
Association
Trust deposits begin
30%
Advocacy
Occasional
Level 3
Integrated
Active
Partner-Aware
You create introductions that feel like service, not selling.
What It Looks Like
  • You understand adjacent needs and timing
  • You introduce with context and close loops
  • You create subtle partner awareness early
Gate to Pass
  • Install a nurture rhythm (so relationships don't decay)
  • Track relationship status and next actions
Next 2 Actions
  1. Create a simple "relationship status list" for 10 people
  1. Add a monthly touchpoint (value share, intro, or insight)

Common Trap: Making intros without follow-through
70%
Attention
Partner-aware visibility
65%
Action
Context-rich intros
68%
Association
Consistent follow-through
55%
Advocacy
Repeat referrals start
Level 4
Integrated
Advocate
Systems-Led
Your networking is repeatable, tracked, and scalable.
What It Looks Like
  • You have routines, templates, and feedback loops
  • You can generate momentum without willpower
  • You build proof assets and shared projects
Gate to Pass
  • Create predictable advocacy triggers (proof + celebration + share)
  • Become part of others' default solution set
Next 2 Actions
  1. Build a simple referral protocol (ask, intro, follow-up, close loop)
  1. Capture 1 proof asset (mini case study or testimonial)

Common Trap: Overbuilding systems and underdoing relationships
85%
Attention
Planned visibility
82%
Action
Protocols plus loops
80%
Association
Nurture systems
75%
Advocacy
Predictable
Level 5
Advocate
Advocacy Engine
People promote you proactively because trust and proof are undeniable.
What It Looks Like
  • Your name travels in the right rooms
  • Partners introduce you without prompting
  • Referrals compound into collaborations
Gate to Pass
  • Protect trust (standards) and keep reciprocity clean
Next 2 Actions
  1. Create a share kit (what to say, who it's for, proof)
  1. Run a quarterly partner review (wins, gaps, next plays)

Common Trap: Taking advocacy for granted and letting standards slip
95%
Attention
Reputation precedes you
92%
Action
Proactive introductions
95%
Association
Deep trust
90%
Advocacy
Compounding
Map Your Relationships
Different people sit at different levels. Your job is to move each one step forward.
1
Sarah — Marketing Director
Level 1: Present. Needs a clear referral request.
2
James — Business Coach
Level 3: Partner-Aware. Ready for nurture rhythm.
3
Maria — Accountant
Level 2: Intentional. Time for context-rich intro.
4
David — IT Consultant
Level 4: Systems-Led. Building proof assets.
5
Rachel — HR Specialist
Level 0: Drifting. Needs ICP definition.
6
Tom — Financial Advisor
Level 5: Advocacy Engine. Maintain standards.
Strategic Trinity Power-Ups
Three dimensions that accelerate every level of the ladder.
Clarity
Define goals and signals per stage. Know what success looks like at each level, and what evidence proves you've earned the next one.
Systems
Combine human connection with digital leverage. Build templates, rhythms, and feedback loops that make momentum repeatable.
Connections
Maintain inventory and reciprocity. Remember: networking maturity includes your role in their success too.
Want the Cleanest Path to Level Up?
Start with NET_SYNC — the framework behind this ladder. Build confidence in contribution through repeatable systems, not random networking.
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